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Are Anal Orgasms Real?

Hell yes anal orgasms are real! There are a lot more ways to reach this heavenly euphoric feeling than one. Whatever your gender, the anus and rectum are part of your central nervous system and are packed full of nerve endings. All just waiting to be stimulated until you reach an anal orgasm. Anal penetration stimulates the erectile tissue in the lower part of the vagina and the G-spot. In men, vigorous perineal stimulation and prostate stimulation can lead to massive anal orgasms. The best part of anal orgasms? Unlike a regular orgasm, you don’t have a recovery time. You can experience one anal orgasm after another until your heart desires! Train your PC muscles and get the best butt plugs to start your journey to 33% more intense orgasms! How To Increase Your Orgasms by 33%   It was reported through a large survey done on men, that their orgasms felt 33% more intense when using a butt plug. So, what are some ways of increasing the pleasure while preforming anal play? Once you have an anal plug in, its time to stimulate the prostate. Take the anal plug by the stem and angling it upwards, towards your stomach in a massaging circular motion. This can deliver an orgasm like never before! A must try for all men! How to Keep Butt Plugs Safe: Like any form of anal play, it's important to understand your body before trying these things. When you go to take the butt plug out, remember to push like you are having a bowel movement, while pulling on the plug at the same time. If it doesn’t come out on the first try, do not panic. It will, just relax and slowly apply pressure over and over slowly stretching the rectum until it releases it completely. Do not force it, but keep in mind how much pressure it took going in, it will take slightly more coming out since you are working against the back side of the tapered bulb. Now it is extremely important to clean the anal plug immediately. For obvious reasons, you have a lot of bacteria in the rectum that should be cleaned with a sex toy cleaner specifically or an anti-bacterial soap and warm water. Some are dishwasher safe too. Remember that butt plugs are great during couples play, your partner can use one on you. Or have sex while you have the anal plug in. But you must never share butt plugs with a partner. The bacteria in your body is specific to your body, sharing a butt plug with your partner can lead to infection and other complications. Having two, one for each person is the best route. What are the Benefits of Anal Plugs? First let’s be clear on the difference between an anal plug and butt plug. An anal plug is not for pleasure, they are used mostly for constipation. It also won’t give you any pleasure during sex or masturbation. Keep this in mind when going to purchase because they are not the same. The benefits to anal plugs and butt plugs are tremendous. First, they help stretch out the rectum which is great preparation for one who wants to engage in anal sex. The butt plug allows the anus to stretch out slowly and naturally. Getting accustom to the feeling and increasing width will lead great into anal sex. Butt plugs are also used for stimulation by keeping in during sex and masturbation or angling towards the stomach to apply pressure and massage the prostate. This can lead to extremely intense orgasms. Women can stimulate their G-spot through the wall that divides the vaginal and anal cavity, by angling the plug towards the stomach. Over time, advanced users look at butt plugs like jewelry. It is fun and kinky to wear them out in public or use luxurious ones during sex. Using a bedazzled stem will look like jewelry and may impress your partner. Anal sex can also lead to many benefits. It is extremely pleasurable for men and women who prepare and take the appropriate steps to learn their body and their partners body. It can improve bowel movements and even boost your immune system.   Anal Play Conclusion: If you are using a butt plug, anal plug, or just looking to improve your anal sex life, its an obvious choice this is a popular and pleasurable path. More people use sex toys than you think, and they are becoming increasingly popular… as is all sex talk. The most important thing when talking anal play and butt plugs is to take it slow, and never do anything that is not comfortable. It is a sex toy to bring pleasure so if it/s not doing that, you might have the wrong plug or using it improperly. Remember Diskret is here to help, if you have any further questions on butt plugs or anal play please don’t hesitate to contact us. We are not only here to provide you luxurious, quality sex toys at an affordable price. But we are here to provide you free information about whatever questions you may have regarding sex toys. In the end, remember this is all about having fun and bringing pleasure but it is a serious matter in keeping safe, and using quality products. So, take your pleasure seriously!

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Are Sex Toys Taboo?

They are seen as robotic pleasure, something that delegitimizes partnered sensuality. There is a certain set of ideas, of things that should happen in the bedroom, and should not happen in the bedroom. Slowly that list of things that should not happen, is moving its way over to things that should happen. Using sex toys, is one of those things making its way over to acceptability. Sex toys are becoming much more commonly accepted, justifiably so. However, that doesn’t take away from the “Taboo” nature of owning a toy. Toys can be used to self stimulate, partner stimulate, share, keep, and discover. The social custom that ruminates around the idea of sex toys can be demeaning, implying that orgasm cannot be achieved without them. When it comes to using toys, there is not limitation, no huge ending to a sexual encounter. There are multiple high levels of sexual experience, and none of which have to end because orgasm has happened. It can happen over, and over, and over again. Arguing morel complexity is one thing, but it is very difficult to argue with multiple orgasms. If you are looking for something basic to start with, Diskret is the answer. Diskret does not offer extreme or “raunchy” toys. We have a simple model of simple, quality, reliable toys deliver the most pleasure. It doesn’t need to have 5 spinning gears and a vibrating 5-axis swing arm to be pleasurable. We also don’t offer all the whips and chains of the BDSM community. So in the nature of keeping things simple and effective, we suggest checking out the Mio by Je Joue for couples play, or the Moon Wand for solo play. These are both simple and elegant designs that deliver powerful orgasms time and time again. 

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Erotic Spanking: The sensual art of a delightful spank

You’ve read about it in books, seen it in movies & perhaps have a longing to explore some kink into your life. Let’s explore the art of erotic spanking. Erotic spanking, when undertaken as part of a consensual, sensual session between fun-loving adults, is an extremely pleasurable activity. Both the spanker and spankee enjoy an entire catalog of positive sensations and emotions - not to mention a whole lot of physical stimulation. As with all activities in the Kink lifestyle, consent and safety are key. Sure, the emphasis is always on exchange of control, adventure and fun, but the levels of vulnerability between partners enjoying kinky activities such as spanking are often pretty intense. So, how do you go about ensuring that you retain all the fun of a sound spanking, while keeping everyone safe? I'll show you how to spank your partner soundly and oh-so safely. So What is erotic Spanking exactly? Spanking, as part of sexual play, occurs when a person slaps a sex partner with an open hand or an object to heighten sexual arousal for one or both parties. Spanking is usually enjoyed by those who find sexual pleasure in pain. It can be done during foreplay or intercourse. Let’s commence to spanking:       Once both parties have reached a consensual agreement my best advice is to ready, yes focus your spanking on the buttocks. 1.) Always avoid impact on or above the tailbone, outside of the buttocks, lower thighs, the back of the knees, and where the bottom ends and the thighs begin. It’s easy to damage the tailbone or kidneys if you're spanking gets out of the safe zone. And anyway, most people find that it feels best on their butts. 2.) You can create different sensations by having the receiving partner in different positions. If they’re lying flat on a bed, their butt is less stretched out than if they’re bent over or on their hands and knees. Many people find that the further their hips are bent, the stronger the same impact can feel. 3.) I would recommend for first time play using your hand to spank as to have a better understanding of how your partner is feeling, if you’re not sure what you or your partner likes, start slow and ask. One great way to do that is to spank once and ask them to rate it on a scale of one to ten. Another way is to do two different strokes and ask which one felt better. Okay so the spanking is over now what? Great question. After Care, After Care, After Care. soothing lotion, a blanket, a sip of water, and a cuddle are wonderful tools for all parties involved. The spanker should check in on the spankee and discuss how the spankee is feeling both physically and emotionally. If your spanking session leads to wild, orgasmic, delicious hot sex, the aftercare can wait until you're done, but always check in with your partner at some point. FYI Spankings might cause redness, bruises, and tenderness. As you both ride the wave of orgasmic pleasure always remember that they key element to exploration is always to provide a safe, sane and consensual environment where both parties feel free to experiment and find what works best for each other. Not all spankings are equal, and you might be surprised at what they can do for you and your relationship.

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Evolution of Toys

Toys were not always considered toys. They were once considered medical implements to stimulate women suffering from “Hysteria”, to orgasm, in efforts to ease their mental and physical torment. That torment, is what we know today as sexual frustration, and those medical implements, were vibrators. For a while there, sex toys, were only accepted in a medical setting, used solely for practicality in expediting treatment. They were not discussed in the open, like the culture we are developing today. We have come quite far from then, not only in the mechanics of toys, and what they can do physically, but also the audience of toys. Once only accepted by doctors to use on women, now more commonly accepted for women to use on themselves. They are used for men to use themselves, for couples to use on one another, for people in the transgender community to adapt more easily to their sexuality, for members of the asexual community to explore sensuality within themselves. The audience for sex toys is not limited by anything. Sex toys are not for the economically wealthy, or the socially accepted sex and orientation. They are individualized for usage because pleasure does not discriminate. Diskrets ideology is back to basics, and not in since of doctors using the sex toys, but the complexity of the sex toys. Sometimes the most simple things are the most reliable, dependable, and quality products in the field. Diskret believes in the simplistic look that makes them luxurious in their own style. Take the Fresh by Leaf shown below. It is an Eco-friendly vibrator that is phthalate-free, has strong powerful vibrations, extremely quiet, and FSC paper packaging. This may look like a simple design, but that doesn’t stop it from delivering the best experiences.

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How Sex Toys can enhance a relationship

Toys are not there to replace or diminish the act of lovers, but to enhance, and ensure pleasure. Sex toys can unlock pleasure and passion not only physically, but mentally as well. There are certain reactions that our bodies have during moments of high intensity sexual experiences. Toys can enact those chemical releases, so we feel, taste, and want more. There is no shame in using toys for pleasure, especially when that pleasure can move past relationship blockades that may have been hindered because of a lack of sexuality. Mutual pleasure is one of the, if not, THE most important component of a sexual relationship between two people. A shared atmosphere of giving, and receiving is the only way to reach maximum sexual pleasure. Every body is different, and pleasure comes about to people in different ways. Orgasm can be fairly easy to achieve, or take quite an ample amount of time. Sex should never get to a place where it feels like a chore that ends in a bit of stress release. Toys can help move those difficult experiences along, ensuring satisfaction for both parties, all the time. These pivotal moments in sexuality should be acknowledged and built upon so that both partners are in tune with one another, and constantly receiving mutual sexual pleasure. Couples sex toys are prevalent today and there are so many different types, shapes, and styles. The best reviewed and most common are the cock rings. These are simple designs to bring pleasure to both him and her at the same time! They are placed around the male at the base of the shaft which gives him pleasure, and vibrates on her clitoris during sex that brings her unsurmountable pleasure at the same time. A popular cock ring at Diskret is shown below on the left, it’s both powerful and quiet. It has many modes of vibration patterns, waterproof, and its rechargeable. It is called the Pivot. Another style of couple’s toy is the Sync, shown on the lower right. This is an amazing toy that is placed inside the female during sex that brings powerful vibrations to the vaginal area and penis during intercourse, while stimulating the clitoris all at the same time! A trifecta of pleasure!

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How to use the best butt plugs

All orgasms are equal right? Wrong! You can always intensify your orgasms by branching into new sexual experiences like using a butt plug. So, what’s the big deal about anal play, its becoming more and more popular among women and men. Yes, straight men too are enjoying anal play and butt plugs. This guide is going to walk you through everything you need to know about butt plugs. It will explain what butt plugs are. Who uses butt plugs and why. How to use butt plugs for beginners and advanced individuals. It will also explain the benefits and risks that come with butt plug play. What is a Butt Plug? Let’s start with what butt plugs are. Butt plugs are sex toys used for stimulating the rectum. Men and women use them to stretch their sphincter to ease their way into anal sex, while others use them strictly during sex and masturbation to increase the sexual stimulation and intensity of their orgasm. A butt plug is much shorter than your typical dildo and it has a large base on it. This base needs to be larger than the widest part of the butt plug bulb for safety reasons. The anus does not have a natural “stopper” like the vagina and needs to have a backstop to prevent the butt plug from going into the anus too far. Make sure to check this as many manufactures don’t always adhere to this rule! Butt plugs come in a large variety of shapes, colors, materials, sizes, and designs. They are designed to stay in the anus for prolonged periods of time. Some people even wear them into public for the kink aspect of it. The most common butt plug models are shaped like a cone or bulb with a stopper. Remember that unlike anal beads which progressively get larger and are designed to be inserted and removed throughout the sexual experience. The butt plug is typically designed to stay in during sex and removed after. Some butt plugs have a fox tail attached. These are for role playing fantasies and are quite popular. In the U.S. alone people search for butt plugs almost 20 thousand times a month! These tail plugs are not designed to stretch the anus but more so a mechanism to attach the tail. Butt plugs are a great way to ease into anal sex. You can start small and slowly work your way into larger plugs at a comfortable pace. Then when you are ready, you can take on your partners penis or strap-on. A lot of butt plugs are sold in sets of small, medium, and large. These are made for those looking to progressively dilate their rectum. If you have never tried a butt plug, make sure to read the “how to use a butt plug” section of this article before giving it a go. It may sound simple, but a few basic tips can make your experience so much more pleasurable. A Blast Through the Butt Plug Past: Although most are not aware of it, butt plugs and anal toys have been around for centuries, even millennia at this point. Butt plugs dating back to 200 B.C. have been dug up! The first U.S. sold modern day butt plugs were sold as “Dr. Young’s ideal rectal dilators kits”. They were advertised as curing all sorts of many common illness. Which of course many were proven scientifically false. However, the orgasms that came from them may have helped with many things like headaches, stress, unbalanced hormones, and pain relief. Since that is proven to hold true today. But the claims that Dr Young’s kit cured insanity, insomnia, constipation, and so on… were obviously proven false back then and the common butt plug were banned for sale as medical device. It really wasn’t until the late 1990’s that the advent of soft silicone came into the sex toy world. This suited the butt plugs well and your modern-day butt plug came booming into the market stream. How to Use A Butt Plug: Preparation before using a butt plug is important. I do not suggest a beginner trying a butt plug without understanding the basics around anal play first. We will help guide you through the basics here. Do not try to shove an anal plug in without taking the necessary steps to prepare, this could lead to injury and serious discomfort. The complete opposite of how your anal plug experiences should be. The first step is ensuring your rectum is clean, a bowel movement and good scrub in the shower will suffice. You can use a douche with tepid water if that’s more your style. The next step is stretching. Just like in athletes, it’s important to stretch the muscles before going for a home run. Start with plenty of lube on your finger and rectum area. Completely relax your mind and body, while slowly inserting your finger. Get accustomed to the feeling and then insert another finger. Do this until you have 2-3 fingers in comfortably. Next, slowly insert the butt plug. Butt plugs are made of all different sizes and materials, if it is two big or sticking, do not force it! It is best to give it a shot, and if it doesn’t work out, purchase a smaller size. A butt plug training kit from small to medium might be best for beginners who are ambitious. Remember to use lots of lube. Apply the lube to the tip of the butt plug and outside of the rectum. This will keep any type of anal play more safe and pleasurable. Not all lubes are the same, here at Diskret we suggest the more natural lubes. Water-based and natural oils will keep the potential for silicone-based lubes and the silicone plug to react in a negative way. If you feel any sort of pain, do not keep going. Relieve the pressure of your hand on the butt plug and slowly pull it out. You can try again when the pain goes away. Once the plug is in, you can leave it there for up to an hour. Do not leave the plug in for more than 3-4 hours, depending on the material the plug is made from, it can start to break down in the body. This is why Diskret highly suggests high quality butt plugs. The low-quality plugs are littered throughout the industry. So, make sure you go with a trusted retailer or manufacturing company for your plugs. Do your homework and research or trust a company you know delivers quality sex toys. High Quality Butt Plugs For Men: Unfortunately, the marketplace is flooded with low grade butt plugs for men. Its always been that way and probably always will be that way! Lucky for you, I’ve tried hundreds of butt plugs for men and know a thing or two about which one’s work and which ones don’t. So, here are my top 3 butt plugs for men that will give you mind blowing anal orgasms: Duke by Fun Factory: Designed by men, for men! This butt plug for men is truly unique. It’s a powerful, flexible prostate & perineum massager. It might look a little crazy from a design standpoint, but each curve and swirl is designed to conform to the exact curve of your body. It is easily inserted and provides mind-blowing p-spot stimulation! Use it with the bullet vibrator for an even more intense butt plug orgasm. Once inserted it becomes a hands-free experience and allows you to move freely without having to adjust.       High Quality Butt Plugs For Women: Bootie 3 pc. Set   The Bootie 3 pc set by fun factory is 100% body-safe silicone. This butt plug for women has a very popular design that women rant and rave about. It slides in easily and allows for hands-free anal pleasure. It is also great for beginners as you get 3 different sizes. Like I talked about earlier you can work your way up through the sizes and help prepare for large butt plugs and anal sex.      

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New to Sex Toys

There is always an unspoken fear when purchasing your first toy. How big should it be? How many settings do I really need? What are those little things on it? Of course, everybody is different, and every body is different. Each reacting to sensations, in different ways. The initial steps in figuring out which toy is right for you, is figuring out what your body favors. There are sensual moments that need to be spent with ones self, to learn, and discover. In those moments, ask yourself, what do I like stimulating? How much stimulation do I like? What amount of time do I like it for? Also, try not to be overwhelmed with the amount of toys. Avoid asking aversive questions such as “Why am I even here?” “Do I really need something like this?” You have come here for a reason, and pursuing that reasoning until you are satisfied is important. Try not to be overwhelmed. Start with something that you are confident will work for your body. All these questions can be answered with simple trial and error techniques. Learning ones body is the absolute first step, and then proceeding to find a toy that fits the perceived pleasure levels, is the perfect way to go about it. There is no right or wrong answer when experimenting with something for the first time. The best thing to do is trust your body, and your mind, and the rest will come from there. We recommend a basic, easy to use G-spot simulation dildo to start for most beginners. If you have determined you need G-spot and clitoral stimulation, for most beginners we suggest the Iconic Rabbit 2.

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Secrets to Ignite Desire in a Relationship

Intimacy and Desire in a relationship are topics that should always garner some attention. Some believe that desire is not the most important aspect of a relationship, but few can actually be indifferent towards it. After all, desire is an essential part to a relationship. Without it, you're going to have a hard time making things work. So what exactly do I mean when I say desire and intimacy? Intimacy is profound and addresses attraction in multiple emotional, intellectual, and sexual manners. Desire focuses on one particular aspect of this: the sexual attraction we feel for our partner. What happens when desire leaves a relationship? The relationship begins to struggle. Especially when the desire becomes one-sided, the situation can become very painful. You can try to work together to restore the desire, intimacy, and closeness—some couples really manage to do it properly, but many couples also fail at it. Sometimes when the intimacy and desire are gone, they can not be recovered. It is far easier to take preemptive action to keep desire alive in your relationship from the beginning. Here are but a few simple tips to ignite desire back into your relationship: Talk honestly and openly about how you feel without blaming and accusing each other. When you speak frankly, it is as though a huge burden falls off of your soul. We often fear that we are too complicated and the other person won't understand, but it's worth a shot. If your partner understands you, this emotional closeness can translate back into physical closeness. This advice translates into your sex life as well. Communicate about what you like, what isn't so great for you, and what you think you should work on. Fear closes us. Honestly talking about how we feel will keep us open and available to our partners.This point elaborates on the previous. If you and your partner haven't lost your attraction to one another yet, make sure you're opening up regularly. Being afraid to tell them what you like or dislike can cause hidden resentments to sneak into your relationship. Communication is one of the most important things in the relationship between two people, especially when it comes to desire.  Maintain physical contact throughout the day, look each other in the eyes, and laugh with each other. Give kisses, embrace each other, and light caressing touches. These things often lead to deeper physically intimacy. Every relationship requires some kind of playfulness, both in the bedroom and out of the bedroom. An unexpected caress can leave your partner craving your touch, and can be the perfect precursor to some time in the bedroom later that night. Become aware of what you value and find attractive in your partner.Think long and hard about what makes your partner most attractive to you, and tell them often. Sometimes even your partner knows you love them, you should show it often. Tell them what exactly you find attractive. This can be anything from "Your skin smells incredibly delicious," to "I find it really sexy when you look deep into my eyes." Cultivate appreciation and respect for your partner.If you have ever felt like anything was missing from your relationship and you have worked through it, do your best to keep things fixed. Do not stop showing how much you care and never stop working on your relationship. Just because things are perfect at the moment does not mean you should ever stop trying. In order to keep it the flow of the relationship perfect you have to appreciate what you have. Surprise them with something they would have never expected. If you never clean the house, do it a couple of times and show your partner that you care about helping out and putting effort in. Surprise her with flowers, Ladies perhaps put together a romantic music list for him on Spotify. To spice things up give your partner a seductive massage with your favorite oils, Feed each other desert at a restaurant . This added time together can foster physical desire, especially if your partner is enamored by your desire to do something out of the box with them. Never make them think that they are not worth your attention (turn off your smartphones and televisions).  Always give your partner your undivided attention, with the age of technology having us all constantly connected give your partner 100% of your attention. This opens the door for compliments and let them know how important they are to you. Nurture them when they are down and emotionally broken, let them know they are never alone and give your best to make them feel like they are your universe, because after all—they really are the most important person to you. Again, emotional closeness fosters physical closeness. Problems with desire and intimacy are not anything that can be fixed off the cuff. That's why taking the time to keep desire alive in your relationship is vital. Communication is the most important thing about this. If you're feeling desire towards your partner, tell them.

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Sex Toy’s For Couples De-bunking The Myths And Offering Orgasmic Tips

Sex is great, and sex toys can make it even better, but many couples seem to be intimidated by sex toys while their partners might want them the idea of introducing a sex toy might be intimidating. There are a number of reasons why couples might fear toys in bed, but there are even more reasons why this is a fear to be overcome. Our time in this life is short, and there is nothing wrong with trying to get as much pleasure out of it as possible. Given that, why would you willfully deny yourself added fun and a better time? After all, it’s not like someone looks back at their life and smiles at all the fun they didn’t have. This guide will briefly outline some reasons couples fear sex toy and then go on to explain why couples shouldn’t be afraid of toys. Men: There are many theories as to why men seem to be afraid of toys. The most common theories center on the idea that men feel inferior, threatened, or inadequate when the idea of toys in the bedroom is brought up. These fears can come about because of the way that gender roles have traditionally been articulated in the west. Men are supposed to be able to provide whatever is needed for themselves and those around them, and sometimes men can feel that the presence of a sex toy means that they are not good enough. However, this is simply a matter of mindset rather than reality. Another factor comes from myths about female sexuality, where some men might fear that his partner might prefer the toy vs the real deal, (Guys no toy can replace the incredible love, affection and sensation your bodies offer).  As you may have realized reading those sentences, neither thought process makes any sense and only works to restrict how we look for pleasure. There are far more reasons to embrace the joy and pleasure you can get from toys than there are sensible reasons to fear them. In this same regards woman are fearful of their vaginal walls extending and or becoming weaker and not meeting the mold of their partner’s penis, all of course terrible myths. Ladies our vaginal walls are incredibly strong, flexible and juicy no sex toy could ever change your vaginal canal and or the capability of enjoying sex with your partner. Frequently sex toys are seen as something that are only for women. However, the industry has been working to change this perception and has been coming out with more and more toys designed with couples in mind (We-Vibe Sync). These go above the standard vibrating rabbits of the past, and can be a great way to spice up a relationship or just enjoy some you time. Adding one of these masturbatory aids can introduce a whole new element to your personal time as well as your playtime with a partner. When with a partner, a toy can be almost like a threesome, with all kinds of stimulation happening everywhere. By yourself, a toy can bring a porn viewing to the next level or help make solo time feel more like the real thing. As you can see, these are compelling reasons why couples shouldn’t be afraid of toys in the bedroom. Here are a few tips on how to incorporate sex toys into your relationship: First Talk Talk about what seems interesting to you and align it with what you do already in the bedroom. Do you like massages to get you in the mood? Maybe a massage candle might be on the wish list. Interested in bondage, but want something comfortable and relatively gentle? It's also important to talk with your partner about what they want and what they don't want. Communication is the key to make sure that both of you have an amazing time. Second: Educate Yourself If one partner has used toys before (for example, for solo play, or in previous relationships), this may be an opportunity to educate the other partner by demonstration Toy’s I Highly recommend are: Lelo Tor II Yes, guys a cock ring here is why this toy is a fully waterproof, fully rechargeable cock ring that delivers uncommonly powerful vibrations for this type of toy. Worn on the penis during sex, it is designed to help provide a more powerful erection while delivering pleasure-inducing vibrations to a female partner during sex. We-Vibe Sync   This vibe is well-known as one you can wear during intercourse, and this latest version is still great for that. But it can also do a whole lot more. Enjoy G-spot and clitoral stimulation alone, or let a partner hold the remote control. Sync also works via We-Vibe's We-Connect app, allowing your partner to control this via app and or remote. LELO SONA   The LELO SONA and SONA Cruise are the latest in LELO's line of luxury sex toys, but they provide something completely different: deep clitoral stimulation via sonic waves. It promises bigger, better, deeper orgasms - and it really delivers Use Lube Lube doesn’t get nearly enough love. In fact, a lot of people assume that it’s just for people who don’t have enough natural lubrication. The thing is, even if you’re one juicy babe, lubrication levels can fluctuate with your mood, your cycle and even the weather. And more lubrication tends to mean more comfortable, longer play. This is true even with a vibrator that you plan to use externally. Even that small amount of vibration against your skin is a form of friction that can create some degree of irritation. Adding a dab of lube will make things so much better. Trust me on this one! Third: Go Slow Even if you're tempted to use everything at once, don't. You don't need to use an entire toy box in one go! Let's say you have multiple toys. You can reserve one or two for special occasions, or to elicit different sensations from your partner at different times. After all, you might want rough and intense play in one session, and gentle caresses the next. Use the toy that fits the occasion and mood, and know that the rest of the toy box is there, and will always be there, when you need it. As you can see, there are many reasons why couples shouldn’t be afraid of toys. Toys can help add spice to any relationship or encounter. They bring couples closer together through having open honest communication with each others wants and needs, offers more confidence and sexual exploration and trust me you won’t be disappointed with the result. A couple that plays together stays together.

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The Masturbation Prescription To A Healthier And Happier Life

Up to 95 percent of men and 89 to 92 percent of women masturbate, it’s probably safe to say that no one really needs much convincing to keep doing it. Yes, I am going there. So if you are one of those people whom are slightly squeamish and don’t approve of this topic than please avert your eyes. Thank you because I am diving into this one head first, so to speak. And yes I will cover the health benefits for men. However, since I am a woman I will start with the women first. For instance; It has been proven that masturbation has many health benefits. For women, masturbation can help prevent cervical infections and urinary tract infections through the process of "tenting," or the opening of the cervix that occurs as part of the arousal process. But let’s get into some fun facts for you men out there: Masturbation does not have the health benefits that sex does: your body does respond differently and no one seems to know why It is not risk-free: there is a risk of skin irritation if you utilize a lube or lotion that will irritate your skin (use water based lubes) For those that have allergic reactions I recommend they use: Coconut Water based lube. This lube it is completely natural, offers a silky texture and will not change your bodies PH. Added bonus you don’t need to clean yourself after as it it water based so this will evaporate and dissolve. There is no normal amount of “Masturbation”: Guys tend to obsess about how much they masturbate. However, there is no normal set amount so relax guys! On a lighter note Masturbating has been proven to: Help Sleep Relieve Cramps Prevent Prostate Cancer Alleviate Urinary Tract Infections Boost Your Immunity And Make Sex Better Ladies: Take your masturbation to the next level by adding a delicious toy called the womanizer. This incredible toy mimics oral sex ummm yes, it is a clitoral toy that if focused on the clitoris. The womanizer has suck and blow sensations with 12 different levels of vibrations. This beautiful toy is waterproof, rechargeable with a two-year warranty I can’t stress how orgasmic this toy is. For centuries, adolescents have been warned that self-gratification is sinful and can lead to blindness, impotence, acne and even my favorite furry palms. When actually scientific tests have been proven that masturbation can relieve stress as well as the fact that it helps your heart. It has also been proven to help people with acceptance issues as well. It helps with self-esteem issues. It also helps the woman’s vagina because orgasms help keep your pelvic floor strong and healthy. So whether you're in a relationship or single it is okay to touch yourself and keep it up. And men the same applies to you! It ups your mood. Masturbation is the biggest shot of dopamine you can receive. Which is why after good sex we are most of the time satisfied. And it will help you last longer while you are having sex so guys, consider it practice for the real thing. Guys I highly recommend you utilize a male masturbator like the Pulse III Duo by Oct Hot Octopuss , this is a perfect device to add onto your daily masturbation sessions. Fun facts about this toy: Its compact (because no one case to know) rechargeable, water proof and made out of pure medical silicon. Wait guys, it also offers 5 pre-set vibrations and to make it even more fun it comes with a remote (you can give the power to pleasure you to your lover at some point) So despite the many myths surrounding masturbation including masturbation causes blindness and insanity; masturbation can make sexual organs fall off, and masturbation causes infertility. It does, however, improve immune functioning by increasing cortisol levels, which can regulate immune functioning in small doses. It also reduces depression by increasing the number of endorphins in the bloodstream. Talking about masturbation also has benefits. Promoting sex-positive views in our own homes and in society, including around masturbation, allows us to teach young people healthy behaviors and attitudes without stigma and shame. But it will also bring couples together by openly communicating about their sexual wants as well as their desires. So there you have it, I would highly recommend everyone to have a solo love session with themselves at least once a day, as per your sexpert's prescription.